to-do:

halloween, bob and wendy
grandma / gpa -- move down here to fallbrook

dad: "roley polie olie's dad is a nerd"
AP: "dad, you are are a nerd too....but I won't tell any of my kids at school....and I'm a careful girl"

watching home videos of the kids, they talk about themselves in the 3rd person, not understanding that it's them in the videos